Wednesday, May 2, 2012

What you should know Wednesdays...

First I laughed and then I gagged and then I laughed again...I don't think I have ever personally hocked a lugie in public, and would die if I had and it was filmed.

Really?  REALLY?  Even Dolphins are getting bullied?  This totally blows.

They were sunbathing in the street why?  Was the yard too small?  I don't understand.

This disgusts me, but then again, it's just a reminder that we still have so far to go.

And last but not least, in case you were feeling like a lazy bum, this should make you feel otherwise.

Happy Wednesday!

Memories


This required some thought…and I don’t know that it has a good answer to be honest.  Would I rather lose all of my old memories or never be able to make new ones.  This was less of I really do have an answer to this versus more I was curious what people would say.

What happens to us, what we remember, where we have been, what we learned, form us into the person we are today.  Right now.  Who I am RIGHT NOW, is a direct result of everything that happened to me PRIOR to today.  With that being said, I would rather lose all of those, good and bad, and make new ones from here on out.  I guess by saying that I am telling you that I want to leave the past in the past.  And the reason that I can honestly tell you that is because there has been some pretty painful stuff happen to me in the last 10 years.  I would love to let it go.  I would move forward, not necessarily knowing why I feel a certain way about something, but it would be like starting with a clean slate.

So, I think it’s personal for everyone.  But seriously.  I would be really mad if from this point forward I could not make new memories.  


Tuesday, May 1, 2012

If you want to Judge, perhaps you should go back to law school...


Apparently a few of you would like to fart in public and not be judged.  I suppose if you want the truth I would rather be able to do that and not laugh hysterically, because let’s be honest, people fart.  If you don’t you are full of shit.  Literally.  Or hot air.  Which is the same thing. 

The answers provided as usual, were varied and interesting.  This is a tough question for me to answer because let’s be honest, nothing stops me from doing something for fear of being judged.  So with that being said it made me feel really bad when I learned that some people would be “more themselves” than they are, especially in public.  Or be more social.  Or say what they really feel.  This is incredibly hard for me to wrap my hands around, because I am so polar opposite of that.  I would venture a guess, that if I was to ask people to give 3 reasons why they like me that would be one of the three.  That I am myself, that I am social and that I ALWAYS say what I feel.   Sometimes that is a gift.  Sometimes that is a curse.  But I can tell you for sure if I had to be someone or something else, I would explode.

If I had a dollar for every time Sister said “I can’t believe you did that, or said that…” well, I would be rich.  I just don’t see the point in it all if I have to be someone I am not.  Then I get, well, you choose your battles.  Ok.  I get that.  We all choose our battles.  I just have never understood the battle to be someone I am not, or to pretend I don’t feel a certain way, or to act a certain way for other people.  That is preposterous to me.  And I take that for granted.  And I shouldn’t.  But I do.